A Christians Code of Conduct

I will be carrying on today from part 1 that I posted last Wednesday. If you haven’t read part 1, you will want to do that first.

I continued doing more research on the subject because I felt like I had just touched the surface, and sure enough, there is a LOT more info. The Bible is saturated with how we should live our lives for the Lord and in honour of Him. Please excuse me if I repeat certain points; there was a lot to go through.

Here are eight aspects of right conduct:

We must submit to authority. “Remind your people to submit to the government and its officers. They should be obedient, always ready to do what is good” Titus 3:1 (NLT). We must be good citizens without compromising our faith. This one is difficult for people because the governments of the world are getting worse and worse. However, we need to submit as long as it doesn’t cause you to sin in any way.

We must spend our time doing good deeds. “These things I have told you are all true. I want you to insist on them so that everyone who trusts in God will be careful to do good deeds all the time” Titus 3:8 (NLT). “For our people should not have unproductive lives. They must learn to do good by helping others who have urgent needs” Titus 3:14 (NLT). We must help our neighbours, serve in the community, and assist people in need. Do we want to lift up the name of Christ? The best way to witness to the lost is to serve the lost. The best way to reach the young mother next door isn’t to only give her a Bible verse and an encouraging word (even though that is good too) – it’s to give her a helping hand. Actions speak louder than words.

We must sound the alarm with divisive people. “If anyone is causing divisions among you, give a first and second warning. After that, have nothing more to do with that person. For people like that have turned away from the truth. They are sinning, and they condemn themselves” Titus 3:10-11 (NLT). So, there are problem people in the church because they are quarrelsome and secondly, there are problem people in the church who are divisive. Whatever you do though, should always be done with love.

We must see to the needs of those who vocationally serve the Lord. “I am planning to send either Artemas or Tychicus to you. As soon as one of them arrives, do your best to meet me at Nicopolis as quickly as you can, for I have decided to stay there for the winter. Do everything you can to help Zenas the lawyer and Apollos with their trip. See that they are given everything they need” Titus 3:12-13 (NLT). Zenas was a lawyer who helped the Christians in their legal wrangles with the Jews, and Apollos was a teacher/preacher/leader in the church. Vocational ministers of the gospel, such as pastors, teachers, and missionaries, should be financially, prayerfully, and practically supported by the church. A good verse to look at is 1 Timothy 5:17-18.

– Nonetheless, Christians are called to live lives that are “holy and pleasing to God” (Romans 12:1)

– How to show we are His disciples. With the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)—this should be the hallmark of Christian behaviour, especially love.

– Christian behaviour includes heeding Jesus’ call for us to be His witnesses to “the ends of the earth” (Acts 1:8).

– We should love without pretence. A genuine love that stems from our hearts.

– We should not find ourselves entertained by books, movies, and music that glorifies evil. Instead, we should abhor them. I speak specifically to this because I believe this is where many true Christians allow the entrance of evil into their lives. It’s also quite a sore topic for a lot of people.

– We must put a firm grip on the truth and pure doctrine. Don’t let go just because someone tells you to. Don’t compromise because it is easier. We must hold fast.

– True Christians meet the needs of their fellow believers. And they are given to hospitality (the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests, visitors, or strangers).

– Forgiving, loving and praying for our enemies is Christ-like.

– Welcoming and serving the marginalized, the “least” among us, is being like Jesus.

– Caring for the sick, needy, underprivileged, widowed, orphaned, poor, abused, and vulnerable—those who are last, mirrors and reflect the Son of Man.

– Striving for justice resembles Jesus.

– But it’s not simply good works that make someone a Christian. Being a follower and disciple of Jesus extends beyond our outward behaviour. It includes the condition of our heart.

Practical ways to live like a Christian in everyday life:

– Show up on time for appointments. Have respect for people and their time.

– Don’t make promises you can’t keep.

– You need to have self-control and discipline (no, you don’t have to eat the whole chocolate).

– Treat your marriage as sacred and not just a fleeting fancy. Work hard at it, remember it’s a two-way street and you are two different personalities.

– Don’t tell other people the secrets that someone has told you.

– Be trustworthy.

– This should go without saying, but say please and thank you. Like when someone lets you in on the road, say thank you… It costs you nothing.

– Answer people when they message you, don’t read it and don’t answer. Even if it’s to say you’re busy, chat later. Then remember to chat later (put a reminder on your phone if you know you’ll forget…yes, I’m looking at you). Not answering people is rude and makes them feel unimportant.

– Answer emails timeously. Give good customer service to your clients, internal and external. Make sure your products are of good quality. Half-hearted should not be in your vocabulary.

– Philippians 4:8 is a good verse on how to live as well: For the rest, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honourable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them].

– Don’t be jealous of something that God has given somebody else and not you. You don’t know what they went through to get it and you might not want to go through the same thing.

– Be a peacemaker almost always. Yes, it’s exceedingly difficult in this day and age, but it is expected of you if you want to see the kingdom of heaven.

– Follow the traffic rules (Oooo, I know that this will be an ouchie for most people).

– Try not to incur debt and if you do, make sure to pay it and keep to your commitments.

– Put your trolley away. Be considerate by returning your shopping cart instead of leaving it to roll into someone’s car. Small acts of responsibility show respect for others.

– Let someone go first. Whether in traffic, at the checkout, or in conversation, practicing patience and humility by letting others go ahead reflects Christ-like love.

– Help without being asked. If you see someone struggling—whether it’s a mom with a pram, an elderly person with bags, or a colleague overwhelmed with work, step in and offer assistance.

– Pick up litter. Even if it’s not yours, keeping your surroundings clean shows stewardship and care for God’s creation.

– Hold the door open. A simple way to show courtesy and care for others.

– Smile at strangers. A warm smile can brighten someone’s day.

– Send an encouraging message. Let a friend or family member know you’re thinking of them.

– Let someone merge in traffic. Show patience and grace on the road.

– Thank your cashier or waiter. Acknowledge their service with genuine gratitude.

– Return lost items. Whether it’s a wallet, phone, or toy, help reunite it with its owner.

– Donate unused items. Pass on things you no longer need to someone who does.

– Visit or call an elderly person. Many seniors battle loneliness; a visit or call can mean the world. I see this every time we do Servolution at our church and we go to the Retirement Village and play Bingo with the elderly and do their nails, sing and sit and chat with them. They absolutely love it! Maybe organize your own get-together with a few friends. The carers and nurses will be more than happy for you to spend time with the residents there.

– Leave a generous tip. If you’re able, bless someone with an extra bit of kindness.

– Be patient with customer service workers. They deal with a lot and kindness goes a long way.

– Write a note of appreciation. Handwritten messages can be incredibly meaningful.

– Compliment someone sincerely. A kind word can boost someone’s confidence.

– Put your phone down and be present. Give people your full attention when they’re speaking. This seems to be a luxury these days, with everyone on their phones all the time. The next time you go to a restaurant, sit in a bus or coffee shop…look up and you will see that most people are looking down at their phones, tablets or laptops. People don’t really pay attention to each other anymore and then wonder why they are so lonely or why married couples are growing apart.

– Refill the coffee pot or water jug. A simple way to serve others at home or work.

– Let someone have the parking spot. Especially if they look like they need it more than you.

– Check in on a friend who’s struggling. A quick call or message can make a huge difference.

– Be extra kind to a rude person. You never know what they’re going through. Show grace.

– Leave a positive review for a business that deserves it. Encouragement helps them thrive.

– Take a meal to someone in need. Whether they’re sick, grieving, or overwhelmed, a home-cooked meal is a blessing.

– Put your neighbour’s bin out (or bring it in). A simple way to show love for those around you.

Every small act of kindness is a reflection of God’s love in action! There are so many more ways that we should act as Christians and I will not be able to put it all here, but if you follow Philippians 4:8 and think what that means in your everyday life, then you should be able to come up with many other points that I may not have covered.

I really hope this helps people out there to do some self-reflection and get closer to God in how they act and treat others, so that we can share His love in this dark world. And always remember that you might be the only Bible that someone might read. You need to make sure it shows off God and Jesus properly and truly.

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